“We live in California. Our son has severe autism, OCD, and behavioral issues that have ruled our lives for as long as I can remember. He struggles with communication, and when things don’t go as expected, the meltdowns are explosive. There are days when he self-injures so severely that I can’t leave him alone for a second. The screams, the head-banging, the constant pacing—it’s heartbreaking and terrifying. My husband and I have felt like prisoners in our own home. We can’t go shopping, we can’t take vacations, we can’t even break from the daily routine without risking an episode that could throw him into a spiral for weeks. We’ve tried every therapy, every medication. Nothing seemed to give him—or us—a moment of peace. It was draining every ounce of energy and hope we had left.
When someone first suggested cannabis to us, I was hesitant, scared even. I didn’t know how it would affect him. I see potheads and druggies everywhere these days in my area, and it does not look appealing. Would it help, or make things worse? But we were desperate, and a friend had read The Cannabis Handbook and suggested that we reach out, so we decided to see Dr. Caplan. I’ll never forget that first meeting. He listened—really listened—to the hell we’ve been living through, and for the first time in a long time, I felt like someone understood. His questions made it clear that he’s been through this with many others. He seemed to get our struggle like no doctor I’ve ever encountered. He wasn’t dismissive, and he cetainly didn’t make us feel crazy for trying something new – the way all of my other doctors do. He explained how cannabis could help with the anxiety, the OCD, and even the self-injury, in a way that was calm and controlled, without overwhelming us. Our son came on camera with a tantrum, and Dr Caplan was as patient and attentive, supportive, as I wish docs all were. Dr. Caplan carefully walked us through everything, never pushing, always respecting our concerns. His focus is so clearly empowering us, not tripping on himself or being on high.
We started our son on small doses of a few products, and I won’t lie, it wasn’t a quick, overnight change. But over time, with adjustments that he oversaw with us, we saw it—he started to calm down. The meltdowns weren’t as frequent, and when they did happen, they didn’t last as long or get as intense. The self-injury started to lessen. It felt like we could breathe again, like we had a little more room to live. We’re still careful—routine is still important—but the constant terror of something going wrong isn’t hanging over our heads as much. For the first time in years, my husband and I were able to go out for dinner. It sounds like such a small thing, but it was a moment where we could remember what life used to be like, before we became prisoners to our son’s condition.
I can’t say that cannabis has fixed everything, but it’s given us something we didn’t have before: hope. We’re seeing glimpses of who our son is underneath the anxiety and the behavioral issues. Dr. Caplan’s patience and understanding have been a lifeline for us. He gave us a way to manage our lives again. We’re still on this journey, but for the first time, it feels like there’s light at the end of the tunnel.”
– Sarah W.